Turn Your Man Into a Bunny? I Don’t Think So!

The Rabbit Penis Ring made by California Exotics  is made of a super soft stretchy  silicone. It is a pink rabbit shaped cock ring. “A small vibrating bullet slides into the bunny’s face, so the ears and nose vibrate with a gentle flutter. There are no wires, so you can stay super close to your partner. Even better, the Virtual Bunny, as it is known, is whisper quiet.  The science behind the Rabbit Cock Ring: The stretchy ring is placed around the base of his erect penis. This applies slight pressure to restrict blood flow out of the penis, allowing it to inflate more fully. The result is a stronger, fuller erection. The vibrating portion of the ring turns him into a vibrator. During intercourse, the bullet portion of the ring can be positioned to provide incredible clitoral stimulation. “ This what they claim about this vibrator on their web site and it is not true.

This is no Rabbit vibrator! Any time clitoral stimulation is dependent on thrusting it is basically a nightmare.   In my quest to help women with their orgasms during intercourse, I have tested many of these rings or I should say my incredibly sweet and helpful boyfriend has tried many of them. I feel they are primarily ineffective in helping women achieve orgasm during intercourse. Most women need constant stimulation. In most female vibrators, even if the vibrator pulses the contact with the clitoris is uninterrupted. Most women need that kind of direct contact which a cock ring cannot provide.  If you really want an orgasm during intercourse try the We Vibe. It is a u shaped vibrator that has 2 parts. One part goes into the vagina with your partner’s penis and the other goes on the clitoris.  Because of the way it is shaped it can provide constant stimulation which should do the job!

Variety is the Spice of Life!

I often hear women and men complain that they are bored in the bedroom. They love their partners, the have sex, they have orgasms and yet..they are bored, bored, bored! You know what I am going to say? Try a vibrator! Actually what I am really going to say is try a few..all in the same night!  I know it may sound crazy but it can be fun and it certainly changes things up. Human beings are generally creatures of habit but what really tends to turn us all on is newness and variety.  Most people fondly remember the first few months with their partner as being particularly hot. Or maybe a one night stand or possibly an early somewhat risky experience.  The unknown can definitely increase your desire and make things more fun and exciting.

If you are someone who has many vibrators, try a few all in one night.  Maybe your proclivity for one has changed. Maybe your body has changed. Maybe your partner’s way of using it on you can change. And if you are someone who doesn’t have many, order a few new ones. Vibrators come in all shapes sizes and price points. There are several that are fun and inexpensive. The companies I would recommend for good, clean and cheap fun are Trojan, Natural Contours and California Exotics. They all carry bullet vibrators for under 25 dollars. So have a cheap date and have fun!

Vibrating Panties

If the words “vibrating panties” conjure scenes in your head like the one of Catherine Heigl  in the movie “The Ugly Truth”, you might be extremely disappointed. I looked at few and though some are better than others none of them really deliver an amazing sexual experience.  Of course sex in real life  is generally different than sex in the movies.  My goal is for people to be having the best experience possible.

The vibrating panties  with the best reviews are from Dr. Laura Berman’s website. The  panties themselves are quite cute. They are made of  a soft black lace and could pass for regular underwear.  However, the mechanism is a real disaster. It sits inside a  pocket in the crotch of panties and because it is placed within the existing seams it sits near the opening of the vagina rather than on the clitoris.  The motor, though battery operated and remote, is extremely weak.

A better option is made by California Exotic Novelties.  The thong looks like something out of the Pulp Fiction S&M scene. Though they look rubbery and unattractive, the fit and feel is not completely uncomfortable. The motor is situated in the right spot and for most women it will provide clitoral stimulation.  The mechanism does not create a strong vibration but for women who don’t need a lot of intensity, this should work. These undies might actually give someone an orgasm.

If the biggest part of the turn on is someone else controlling the experience for you, another option is   a vibrator that is made by Hustler and comes in various shapes (like a butterfly) and sizes, can be worn or held and is controlled by a remote. It is a much larger vibrator than the other two mentioned. It is advertised as wearable under clothing but I am not so sure that would be a particularly comfortable  thing to do. However, the stimulation is more intense and the experience might be more satisfying for someone who likes a stronger vibrator.

Real sex is better than movie sex, because it can be exactly as you want to be. So try new things and see what happens.